Was reading the Manhunt Daily blog the other day and they had a post asking their readers about the number of sexual partners they had been with. I read some of the comments on the post and thought it was fucking hilarious.
Afterwards, I started thinking about how many I have been with, both guys and girls. I started counting. I counted hookups where at least oral sex was performed. And the number I came up with SHOCKED me. It made me happy and somewhat ashamed lol.
Why ashamed? Well, first off, I don't have an exact number! It's so high I have to estimate. Plus, for the last week I keep remembering random hook ups I've had and have added them to the count. And secondly, I don't know 3/4 of their names!
So, I'm here to ask you guys if my number is too high, too low, or just right :)
My number is... for guys - approximately 60 in 3 years
for girls - 11 in 6 years
That means in the 6 years I have been sexually active, I have been with about 70 people. 70! That's more than 11 a year! Almost 1 a month! I don't even KNOW 70 people!
How slutty does that make me? What is your special number?
Ive averaged out recently (monogamous relationship), but at one stage I maxed out at 3 guys fucking me a week (me fucking maybe 1 or 2), average 1 a month later on as well.. would guess about 90 fucks in a 5 year period(no girls for me)
ReplyDeleteI think you're just getting started.
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this subject is treacherous waters to navigate. My ex and I started doing this one night...his number was over 3000....yea...now you know why he's an ex...my number at that time was in the 20's
ReplyDeleteHow do you even find that many guys that are worth doing something with? So far I'm at an average of 1 sexual partner a year, but that's because I'm not directly looking for sex.
ReplyDeleteI have been with over 40 girls and nearly 100 guys. I was a bit of s slut in college. I would fuck my gf in the am, get head on the way to class in some cruisy restroom and the maybe on the way home and then top my night off by fucking my gf again.
ReplyDeletehow many would you say were bb?? -Ryan
ReplyDeleteRyan - I'd say about 20 were BB. Of the 60, I'd guess 30-35 were actual sex, either me topping or bottoming. The others were bj's and making out.
ReplyDeleteGood grief - I've only had two sexual partners in my life (I'm 28)! The first was a random hookup with the barista who would always serve me my tea everyday in my college coffee house; the second was my boyfriend, whom I've been dating since 2006. I think it's totally rad you're so self-confident and carefree. I'm far too much of a worrier to be as adventurous!
ReplyDelete-Justin
Does the 60 count as 60 different guys? what about multiple times like you have with Jockguy?
ReplyDeleteI've been trying to track and log the # of hookups I've been with. You can check it out here:
ReplyDeletehttp://thirty3nakedlaydies.blogspot.com/p/little-black-book.html
Now, based on my tallying, I'd say that to date, I've hooked up about 425 times with ~200 guys and 0 girls in the past 10 years. Of the 200, I've had sex more than once with ~76 of them. It IS shocking when you look at the physical numbers. 425 equals the number of pp in my college graduating class, and 200 is more than double my grad school crew. Kinda scary and... kinda proud... and kinda thinking I can do better ;-)
Just be glad you haven't caught anything . . . yet.
ReplyDeleteI came up with 74. But I'm 25, so... pretty sure you'll beat me in a year or two.
ReplyDeleteThat was a lot higher than I expected.
thanks for the clarification... i'd love to be #21 on your BB roster. :) --Ryan
ReplyDeletewow - now i feel like a complete slut!! i started young - and from the age of 15 to about 21 i was averaging at least 6 different guys per week (bathhouses were great fun when i was young and frivolous!). So, 6 years, 52 weeks, 6 guys per week...1872! I'm now 35, and slowed down a bit since I was 21, so i'm probably around 4000 different cocks in all! wow - i'm kinda amazed at myself. oh - make that 4002 - i had 2 girls as well!
ReplyDeleteWhat's Jockguy's number?
ReplyDeleteSounds just great to me. We are sexual creatures and to deny ourselves sex is the real sad thing. Enjoy just be smart about who you let inside you. Go Ducks and no turnovers!
ReplyDeletei stoped counting at 23yo,I was over a 100... I'm 28...
ReplyDeleteI'm 68 and the number has to be well over 5,000.
ReplyDeleteLate commenting on this but thanks for posting this actually... b/c I needed to update my "list"... haha. Since freshman year in college (2005) I've hooked up with at least 156 dudes. This is more or less hooking up.. sometimes just jerking each other off. So, yeah, average two a month. OH, and BEAT THE DUCKS! Fight On! ;)
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